"Change is a hard thing, and you've been fighting it a long time. You won't be happy until you give your soul what it needs. The journey has to start somewhere. "
Gladys to Mina in The Stranger's Obituary
I don't do well with change. Most people don't. I'm no exception. When somethings changes in my life I'm more likely to withdraw from people or to freak out emotionally. It's not easy being me. But I wouldn't have it any other way.
The fear of change is really the fear of losing control. Not being able to predict what will happen. Not being able to bring about what you want to happen. Change has a way of sneaking in and saying, "boo!". Not fair, right?
There are millions of ways that change affects our lives. We change our clothes, jobs, hobbies etc. The more we try to have control even thru some on else, the more we lose.
It isn't the changes that matter, but the way we react to them that does.
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